Gentle words are a tree of life; A deceitful tongue crushes the spirit. Proverbs 15:4 NLT
Deceit is a strong word.
It implies an intent to harm someone. An intentional sleight of hand.
Have you been deceived by an advertisement or a friend? Most of us could raise a hand of acknowledgment.
The King James Bible uses the word perverseness, rather than deceitful. These are words spoken to another from a choked-off heart. It does the opposite of providing life to those spoken to.
Gentile has strength too.
Looking again at this verse from Proverbs, notice the words spoken with a gentile heart sprout life to the listener. Such amazing life will grow from these gentile words that Proverbs compares it to a tree of life.
Gentle words are not flattery for flattery’s sake. A web search in Microsoft Word says that gentle words are tender, merciful, and compassionate. This is not speaking a false confidence over someone. But to be kind and caring with your word choices.
It extends to the listener strength for their journey, shelter from their worries, and the ability to stand the test of time.
I believe most of us know how to speak in a gentle way to another.
Do you speak gently or deceitfully to yourself?
How long are you going to regret a decision you made five or ten years ago?
You aren’t perfect and will make bad decisions from time to time. Be merciful with yourself.
Will you stop comparing yourself to others?
God designed you to be a reflection of him, unique to you. Be tender of heart and praise him for it.
Can you let go of a wrong done to you in the past?
We have all been wronged and have done wrong. Holding onto wrongs choke you off from a flourishing joy for today. Being compassionate with yourself by releasing that wrong, will grow deep healthy roots to prosper your todays.
Prayer
Lord,
Following your word is not easy. That is probably why you repeat yourself throughout the bible. This verse is not a true revelation. But walking it out is.
Thank you for the mercy, tenderness, and compassion we need, to flourish in our lives and to uplift the spirit of another.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Mercy Tenderness Compassion
Are one of these more difficult to extend to yourself or others? Please share in the comments.
Wonderful words Michele!
Dad
Awe. Thank you.
Thank you! It’s hard to forgive sometimes but God can make it easier if we look to Him!
I agree. It is hard to forgive Della. Indeed, he is our best example of it. Thank you so much for stopping by!
Great reminder to always try the gentle approach verses the overbearing intensity of a harsh verbal word.
Thank you Anthony. Indeed, as it also sets us apart to stand out for Christ. You are a great example to me of being gentle rather than harsh.
Both are difficult, but I think I’ve spoken a million more harsh words to/about myself. After all, I spend more time with me than I do with anyone else. Lol. Happy New Year, Michele.
I think many of us are harsh with ourselves. Taking every thought captive is not a natural response at those times. Happy New Year to you too, Dianne.